The 2013 Year-in-review: Firsts and last

At the last day of the year, the thoughts of all the wonderful firsts that happened in 2013 make me grateful for a year well-spent. Firsts that were shared with the most precious and important people in my life.

Firsts such as:

- First time for my Barcelona-based nephews and nieces to visit Manila. And they loved it here so much, they want to move here.
- First time to experience a Hanami in Tokyo.
- First time for Mark and I to hit the beaches of Boracay
- First time for the family to get together in Bataan
- First time to finish my Christmas shopping and wrapping early

And as the new year arrives in a few minutes, I can help but look forward to the many more firsts that will come in 2014. Firsts that are both planned and spontaneous. Firsts that will make life more fun and richer in the year to come.

Here's to the new year!

Matchy-matchy!

Nina Garcia doesn't like matchy-matchy. Neither do I. Matchy-matchy looks very much like a uniform, so it's something that should usually be avoided.

Usually, at least.

In my recent trawling of the different haunts, there was one article of clothing that really caught my eye. It was this pair of ponte skinny pants from The Limited. It had a great silhouette, the black panels on the side makes it look slimming, and the snakeskin print is very on-trend.

Suddenly, I thought of building an outfit around this find. To start off, I got this slim fit shirt from Oxygen. It's actually a men's shirt, but like what I wrote regarding shopping outside your gender, this shirt will look as good on a girl. (In an Alexandra Chung kind of way.)

Then, by some strange twist of fate, I found these flats from Parisian! They echoed the same snakeskin pattern plus black combination. It was difficult to resist this pair since it matched the pants perfectly. Needless to say, I gave in.

The result, this chic matchy-matchy combination of masculine and feminine, plain and printed, all anchored by the print and color.

See, matchy-matchy ain't that bad.

Dead Hungry

Today's most interesting conversation was overheard in Greenhills. It was between 2 middle aged ladies (MAL) in the food section of the Greenhills Tiangge.

MAL 1: Oh, you should try this suman. It's SO good, I swear by it!
MAL 2: Really? It's that good?
MAL 1: Yes! At first I just tried one, then I ended up eating 4 sumans.
MAL 2: Where did you try it?
MAL 1: During a wake. It was so good, I went to the wake again the next day just to eat suman.

Ah yes, the things they do for suman.

Chesapeake performance

One of the presents I received this Christmas was a bag of Chesapeake Dark Chocolate Pecan cookies from Pepperidge Farm. It was somewhat of a throwback gift because I used to devour Pepperidge Farm cookies a decade ago. But for some reason I can't recall, I stopped buying this brand and sort of forgot about it.

But thanks to the gift, I remember the reason why I love this cookie. It's so chunky! The chocolate chunks are really, really chunks, and there's a chunk of chocolate and a pecan with every bite.

Looks like Pepperidge Farm will be finding itself in my grocery cart again sometime soon.

FMM: Mono-tone

Back in the 90s, I found myself listening to non-mainstream pop music. The type of songs that were pop-ish in their construction, but didn't get as much airplay as normal pop songs.

And one of my favorite songs under this category was "Life in Mono."



I wonder where Mono is now. They should make more songs like this.

Box it like the Brits

For as long as I became familiar with the term "Boxing day," I've always wondered what it really meant.

For the Brits, December 26 - the day after Christmas - is better known as Boxing day. When I researched about it, there were different explanations why it's called such, and most reasons centered on a Christmas box that was given out as a present after Christmas day.

When I was living in HKG, I asked a British friend her definition was. She said that while they were growing up, the day carried that term because it was the day when they'd box all the Christmas paraphernalia and other holiday-related trash that they amassed the day before.

It was an unglamorous definition, but it was a logical one.

So today, I'll do this British thing and declare my own

Merry Christmas!

After all the anticipation, the day is here!



Merry Christmas everyone!

The Christmas rush is through...

For the first time in a long, long, long time, I'm done with shopping and wrapping for gifts before December 24. Unlike previous years when I'd be making mad dashes to the mall and wrapping gifts while everyone's partying downstairs, this year is remarkably different.

In keeping with tradition, Mark and I had our Christmas eve merienda at North Park before heading back home. When I got there, I just socialized and partied with everyone - something I haven't been able to do in a while.

Yup, it's a no-rush Christmas this year.

And it should really be like this every year.

Mixing traditions

This is the year that I went on a Simbang Gabi - Visita Iglesia hybrid. Not only did I complete the 9 novena masses, I went to 9 different churches and chapels to complete it.

It's a great feeling indeed.

Fur real?

Presenting today's oddest banner ad.

I wonder what makes this fur unreal?

Dream theme

When coming up with my Christmas wrapper themes, I usually start by looking around wrap shops and looking for designs that call to me. Much like how fabrics call to designers. That's how I ended up with the Etro-inspired design, as well as the Japanese obi design.

On the other hand, there are actually wrapper themes that have I've been wanting to do for years. Themes that I want to do, but never found the right wrapper to do it with. And I always hope to find a design that would turn that dream theme into a reality.

Well, one of them is becoming a reality this year.

It all started with this Paul Smith stripe looking wrapper which I had to scour 4 National Bookstore branches for. I liked the simplicity of the design, and the play of colors. I was actually ready to use this wrapper as it was since I've always been partial to stripes.

 

A few weeks later, while passing through St. Francis Square, I saw a stall that was selling this gold dotted wrapper. After seeing it, I remembered how I've always wanted to do a "dots and stripes" theme. In my head, it would be striped wrapping paper and dotted ribbons, but after seeing this wrapper, I knew I could re-do that concept into something cooler.

 

Taking the colors from the two wrappers, I went to Divisoria to buy ribbons that would echo the hues. I ended up buying rolls of satin ribbon in brown, wine and blue.

What did I end up doing? I started by wrapping the gift using the striped wrapper. I had to make sure that the stripes were aligned all the way to the back. Then, I took a strip of the dotted wrapper, and placed it at the center of the gift. This created an interesting contrast between the two patterns.

 

Then, I designed a tag which has the colors of the ribbon, the pattern of the wrapper, and a cute little Christmas solider for added quirkiness.

 

With all the elements in place, the "dots and stripes" wrapping theme that I've always dreamed of is now a reality.

And that's a wrap!

FMM: Pining for Paula

It's finale season for singing competitions in the U.S. "The Voice" just concluded theirs, and "The X Factor USA," has crowned Alex and Sierra as the winner.

Despite the level of talent that I'm seeing on these shows, I must admit that a singing show ain't the same without Paula Abdul. For me, she set the standard in judging - both in a good and a bad way. And people say she's a bit cray, but you can't deny that she's a knockout.

Cue in our Friday Magic Madness song:



Yup, Paula Abdul will always be a knockout.

Gold standard

The last time I wore a gold watch was back in college.

If I remember correctly, the gold watch I wore was a hand-me-down from my Dad. It was a vintage looking watch, which some of my friends found odd. After all, this was the time of Swatch, and I was wearing a "daddy watch."

After college, my watch choices gravitated more towards silver and leather. I feel it's more nondescript and versatile. In fact, whenever Mom would ask me what kind of watch I wanted from Fossil, I'd always say: "anything silver."

When Biboy came to visit this month, he brought me this gold Fossil watch. Actually, when he asked me if I wanted anything from the US, I sent him a photo of a silver watch and a gold watch, and he eventually ended up buying this one.

At first, it took a bit of getting used to. It's been ages since I last saw something gold on my wrist. But my colleagues seem to like it a lot, judging on by how many "saan mo nabili 'yan?" questions I received.

Will this gold watch be my new standard?

Maybe not. But it'll definitely be in rotation.

And the Pilotto thickens...

Saw this photo while snooping around for the Pilotto x Target collaboration.

If this is part of what's coming out, I think I'll be on the fence with the collection. The prints are fabulous - as expected, but the garments aren't that interesting. Not yet, at least.

Let's see where this goes.

Style In-Spear-ation

After more than a decade, Britney's back! On the cover of InStyle, that is.

I think the last time I saw her on the cover of the US edition was in 2002. And truth be told, I've been waiting for her to appear on the cover again.

It's so good to see two of my favorites in one place.

Very, Berry nice

My favorite tea drink brand is finally carrying my favorite flavor!

Let the tea addiction begin again.

Two-in-one

When I heard mass tonight, it turned out that I was hearing two masses in one.

Apart from the regular Sunday mass, it was also the anticipated Simbang Gabi.

Now I feel twice blessed.

Underdogs, Overjoyed

One of the things that give me most satisfaction as an educator is seeing my students surpass their capabilities and their expectations.

When one of my thesis groups talked to me about being their thesis adviser, they had a common and simple goal: "Sir, pumasa lang kami, okay na."

They had a great topic, and they were very determined and creative students. So, I knew they could go way beyond the goal they set for themselves. But I didn't want to push them too hard lest they feel pressured, so I let them work at their own pace, and nudged them every step of the way. Slowly, I saw their thesis improve, I saw it as it became more polished, and all the more, I felt confident that they'll do more than just "pumasa lang kami."

After one final rally, we were able to fix the powerpoint presentation a few hours before their actual defense. A few minutes before their big presentation, I huddled them and told them that they had this in the bag, and all they needed to do was own it.

Once the defense was done and the panel deliberated, the group got a grade of A-, and they qualified as an entry for best thesis. And hearing the panel announce the grade gave me great satisfaction because they did surpass their capabilities and their expectations.

Not bad for a group had a simple and common goal of: "Sir, pumasa lang kami, okay na."

FMM: Yawn!

If there's one thing people aren't getting enough of this holiday season, it's sleep.

Aside from having to contend with work, there's the matter of Christmas shopping, gift wrapping, and all other holiday related activities. It's something I can relate to since I get an average of 6 hours of sleep because of everything that's going on.

That's why when the holiday break kicks in, here's one thing that I'm sure I'll do.



Now that's something to look forward to!

What the P?

The whole fracas in BKK is so interesting, I follow the happenings there everyday. And while reading today's article on the situation, a line on the article caught my eye.

Check out the date:

What's December P? December Por? Pive? Pipteen?

Gosh, somebody send that site a proofreader. Please!

Daddy birthday again!

And just like that, it's Dad's birthday again!

I must say, the more the years pass, the more we're looking more and more alike.

Happy Birthday Dad!

Sensitivity test

Personally, I'm not a huge fan of those on-line personality tests. But just for kicks, I tried one which talks about what type of person you are. 

Here's what came out:

Really? I'm sensitive? That's a first. Harhar.

Rocking Roksanda

This is going to be one of those "Fashion Face-off" kind of posts. The article of clothing at the center of this little comparison is the Roksanda Ilincic checkered dress from her Edition at Debenhams collection.

Both Mom and Ate Bullet have this dress, and they wore it on separate occasions.

Ate Bullet wore hers during an exhibit a few months ago. Mom wore hers yesterday during her birthday celebration.

Of course, I won't take sides and say that they both rock the dress. And this goes to show that when a dress is classic and classy, it will look great at any age.

Oh crap!

Presenting the photo that made my trip to Divisoria worthwhile!

I shudder to think how this smells like.

It's all in the card

About a decade ago, there was a Christmas card making contest at Adformatix, and my last minute entry won that year.

A few weeks ago, we were asked to come up with designs for the company Christmas card. And my last minute entry was the one they chose.

Yup, I really enjoy coming up with Christmas card ideas.

FMM: Getting my fill of Bofill

Another one of Dad's favorite singers is Angela Bofill. After listening to her cassette tapes, I wasn't surprised why. She has a voice that's delightful to listen to, calm and powerful at the same time.



"Angel of the Night" is one of my all-time Bofill favorites. And it deserves to be immortalized in my Friday Magic Madness list.

An extraordinary Mandela

As the world mourns the loss of a great leader, I mourn the loss of a person who was an inspiration to me when I was in school. I remember hearing about his story on the news and started researching about his life. That time, we still didn't have the internet, so I had to go through books and microfilm just to get a glimpse of the life of Nelson Mandela. And it was truly, truly inspiring.

I feel fortunate to have been born to a generation who witnessed greatness such as him.

Say what?

I was reading this article on Krispy Kreme's resurgence in the U.S., and there was one sentence that I just didn't get.

Gosh. I've been reading it over and over and over again, and I still can't get it.

The writer must've had too much sugar before writing this piece.

And still more sibling revelry!

As Mom was about to celebrate her 7th decade in the world, we felt that it was an occasion that deserved a special celebration. And what's more special than a complete family to celebrate with you.

That's why Biboy surprised Mom by flying to Manila for a few days to personally greet her and celebrate this milestone.

It was a very, very short trip - 5 days to be exact. But it was 5 days well-spent. For 5 days, the Regalado-Morales siblings were complete, having dinner, hanging out, exchanging stories, and taking pictures - all together. Just like when we were in Morato. Just like when we were kids. The only difference was, we weren't kids anymore. The siblings are really all-grown up.

Despite that, moments like these will never grow old.

Stylish 70s

My Mom is the family's original fashion icon. As a child, I remember how Mom was always immaculately and stylishly dressed. Whether she was wearing a flowy, backless dress, a power suit, a gown with a thigh-high slit or her classic flared jeans and spaghetti-strapped top combo, she always looked modelesque and flawless.

Looking at her photos, it was easy to see that she always embraced fashion. I remember this particular photo when she was a teacher in Bicol. She really rocked the coif and huge sunglass combo.

As she celebrates her 70th birthday today, she's as stylish as ever. Always put together, always chic, always classy, and always dressed appropriately for the occasion.

 So, to the lady who will always be the family's fashion icon and will never go out of style, happy 70th birthday!

Your fashion fans (aka us) love you!

Best. Picture. Ever.

Hands down, this is the best photo of our weekend stay at Las Casas!

It's cuteness overload! It's adorable to the nth power! It's a photo worth gushing about and spending dozens of exclamation points on!!!!!!!!!!!!

The cutest thing about it is, Javi did this pose on his own. I just asked him to stand beside the angels, and he did this. It was a moment worth capturing.

Yup, I don't think I'll ever get tired of this shot.